Thursday, May 7, 2009

Blessing's..in my life

So if you did not hear we went to court on last Monday....It was kinda a funny day actually... We got there at 8:30 in the morning, to wait about 3 hours before we could even get into the court room! (it was all the PFA cases first from over the weekend?!) Well needless to say we never made it to the court room...because we were informed by Stacy that she had a "Lawyer" that told her to postpone the hearing...He could not make it?!? Now that is kinda funny because if you have a lawyer is it not their job to come defend you in court? LOL...so as she is explaining this to the lady whom calls us into the court room, she says who is "lawyer" is! But wait this lawyer that she claims to have is John's lawyer from when he was a child that defended him, and is currently his fathers lawyer! How could she have a lawyer that is currently johns dads lawyer...wait she cant! Its called conflict of interest! So... with everyone running around, we find that the judge is going to postpone the hearing! Of course this makes us mad at that moment because we are trying so hard to close this chapter in our lives... Our lawyer informs us that she will be calling us with the new court date later that day...as she informed us to head down to file for Child support against Stacy... (finally, its not that we need her money, in anyway its the fact that we are now loosing money that is in our savings, and money that is for our family) Well on our way home from this court hearing i pass a sign that says "Today is what it is, you cant fix yesterday, you can only make a difference tomorrow" And it got me thinking, its so how our day was going.... Well needless to say when we got home, our lawyer called, and Informed us that the new court date was going to be set for September 4th, 2009...FOUR months away! WOW! Was that a answered prayer! When you file to have it moved it usually only get moved a couple weeks away...not months away...Debbie (our lawyer) told us that she must have really made someone mad at that court house!!! I was so happy, due to now i can put all my energy into baby Gabby and what we will need to be doing for her! Yea! By then Gabby will be here with us, and we will somewhat know what is going to be going on in our future...(at least a taste of it) Talk about blessing just falling out of the sky! We are also in the process of getting all this started and filed for Kirstynn this way she can legally be a Roddy. One more piece of our puzzle falling into place! I am sitting here thinking, Piece by piece my life is just where it needs to be...in fact i think i can say its almost perfect!! I don't think that i could ask for a better result! Kiera & Dillon are doing so good in school, Kirstynn is now signed up for school next year, and its just going to be an awesome year coming up! Its perfect! My kids are all growing up so much! Dillon got all A's and B's on his progress report! Yea, talk about one happy kid! (plus it helps when you get $$ for them good grades) and Kiera is just about the best reader i have ever seen! She is always reading to the little ones...Kirstynn Is counting everything around her, and loves the "play" read to her "class" Jazmyne now thinks there is a baby in her belly that wants to play with mine all the time! She is always lifting her shirt, and putting her belly next to mine! Its so cute!




I think that god has giving me allot to handle! Trust me in the last month there were so many days I did not know if i was going to have the strength to get up the next morning! But when morning came i got up, put a smile on my face, and went about my day! I know that things are going to still be hard in my future, and i may never understand why god choose us, But i know that he did for a reason...and When i fall I know there are so many people who are around me that will help pick me back up! Help me get back on my feet, Its like the poem Footprints... I never understood why Grandpa Wannemacher loved it so much, till I am sitting here thinking about it..Its the truth.. There are so many times in every ones lives where we are carried, to the next stage... So this is a thank you to all that have carried my stresses on your shoulders, who have said that extra prayer for me, because trust me everyone helps! I cant say thanks enough.... We go to have our MRI done on Gabby on the 12th at 2:30p.m..and go back on the 14th at 8:15 in the morning..to find out the results... I am so scared! But every times she moves there is a voice that tells me that she has a plan, She was put there for a reason! She is My family's Blessing!!! and i cant wait till the day I get to meet my "blessing"



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